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Wife had threesomes, lied to husband about it. He found out and handled it in the most RedPill way.

Extract from: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/300m1g/wife_had_threesomes_lied_to_husband_about_it_he/

TL;DR of original thread: Wife had multiple MMF gangbangs in college, then met a “nice guy” to settle down with afterwards. Didn’t mention anything about her past to her husband. He found out through a mutual friend and was shocked.


Well, she updated today. After much reflection, her husband handled the situation by maintaining perfect frame and taking decisive action. I’ll let her words speak for themselves:

Basically he feels that he was “conned” (his word) into the marriage, saying that he wouldn’t have even dated me, let alone married me, if he’d known what he knows now. His view of me has been irreparably changed and he no longer sees me “as someone worthy of being [his] wife”. (quoting him here… fucking prick) Beyond the sexual aspect, he says he no longer trusts me because I “kept something this big” from him our whole relationship. Nothing I could do or say could convince him that these were past mistakes and not reflective of who I am today. He wasn’t angry with me, didn’t call me a slut or anything like that. Never once raised his voice. Part of me wishes he did, although I can’t exactly say why right now. It felt like I was being laid off from a job.

She wanted him to yell and scream like a beta who’s not in control of his emotions. She wanted him to display weakness so she’d feel better about herself.

But he didn’t. He remained calm, stoic and in control the whole time – causing her to fall into self doubt and confusion. Well played, sir.

My husband owns multiple businesses and wouldn’t get married without a prenup. I signed it, honest-to-god thinking we’d never, EVER have to use it. Well, he had the fucking document with him this morning. He said he’d pay off the remainder of my student loans, which he isn’t “legally obligated” to do. While I appreciate that, I am going to meet with my lawyer this week and see if the agreement can be challenged in court.

Smart guy to get a prenup before getting married. Notice that the woman STILL wants to challenge it in court. Even after lying to her own spouse about sexual deviancy, even after he agreed to pay off her loans in an act of generosity, her greed can’t be fulfilled. She wants more. She wants half his money and his business.

The lesson of this story is twofold. 1) Don’t allow your emotions to rule you – rule your emotions instead. Notice how his maintenance of frame led to him having the upper hand in their social interaction. 2) GET A FUCKING prenup. If you absolutely must get married (which is a terrible idea according to most established RedPillers here)… if you absolutely must tie yourself down legally and financially… have a backup plan. Women don’t need this, the courts are already stacked in their favor. But we do, because men are the ones who make the money and innovate through business. And therefore men are the ones who are targeted when it comes time to split assets during a divorce.

Bonus quote just posted a few minutes ago:

It’s totally a troll post. Reads like a Redpill fantasy. No way a real woman manages to fit every one of their sick stereotypes.

This is the beta’s way of coping with reality. Examples of women behaving badly? Must be a RedPill troll! Such an easy explanation for every bit of evidence that we manage to throw at them.